(Or as we like to call them, “threenagers”!) You’re now entering a season of increased independence, refined gross and fine motor skills, and your rapidly growing three-year-old can sometimes seem like a mini-adult. We know this stage can feel overwhelming, so here are some things that we think can help. Just remember, every child is different so try not to compare your experiences with those around you!

One question we believe almost every three-year-old is asking is, "Is what I'm feeling okay?" At three years old, your child is finally starting to get a better grasp on how things work in the world around them. Their newly developed movement and speech skill set is not yet fully matured and this can sometimes lead to frustrations and more temper tantrums than you’re used to. You may start to hear “baby tourettes” at this age as your kiddo becomes more interested in bathroom humor and potty words—think “poopy head!” Kids learn about how to properly express their feelings through social interactions, especially with parents and caregivers, so it’s important to provide a safe space where you can validate big feelings. Remember, God made emotions; they aren’t bad!