In this phase, parents can be strategic by thoughtfully asking their students about what they believe. Despite the one-word answers and eye rolls, they actually want to have adult conversations about these big ideas. Their thoughts about what they believe are big and complex, and if you give them a space to express their thoughts with you, they will take you up on it.
They thrive on options: When offering guidance, your student will respond better if you present options rather than a firm “this is it.” Giving them choices helps them understand your point while allowing them to reach their own conclusions—which feels empowering and builds trust.
They are smarter than before: There is no one smarter, actually—just ask them! Sometimes this makes them impatient and unwilling to explain themselves. Remember, it's important how they personalize what they believe in this phase. Encourage their personal discoveries and let them know how much you love them! Your love and affirmation will be a constant they’ll lean on while so many things are changing.
The Three Most Important Things to Remember.
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I’m the NextGen Pastor at Christ Community. I'm thrilled to partner with you in guiding and discipling your student. They are the leaders of today, anointed with compassion, inclusion, and a passion for change. Student ministry involves the entire family, so if I can support you or if you'd like to grab a coffee, please reach out!
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