Middle school is a big deal and comes with lots of changes. We want you to know that we see you, and we’re here to support you as you navigate the joys and challenges that come with this coming year. Every sixth grader is different, but here are some things you might find helpful.

One question we believe almost every sixth grader is asking is, "Who am I?" Sixth graders are in an extremely inconsistent season. They might want a cell phone, but still sleep with their favorite stuffed animal. Their attire can go from sloppy to overdressed and back. Their emotions can change drastically from hour to hour. For most sixth graders, this is the first year of middle school which means that your kid will be entering an entirely new social context. Your middle schooler will start using a locker, see dating couples, sit through health class, and many other new things that make middle school feel like a crisis. Your sixth grader is navigating the chaos of middle school, and when you affirm their journey, you help them gain stability.

There will most likely be ups and downs between you and your sixth grader. Drama may erupt. Doors might slam. Tears will probably flow. But these turbulent moments are your opportunity to lean in even closer to your kid. Your sixth grader will push you. Show them that they can’t push you away. Show them that regardless of the changes in how they look, act, or feel, your love will be consistent. They will likely break your trust. Show them that they can trust you no matter what.